January 4th January 2019
So this happened this month…WE GOT ENGAGED!!!!!
I was having a restful evening watching Amazing Hotels on TV when I heard a bing on my phone. I looked down and saw that Rob was on facebook live. He NEVER does stuff like that, so I continued to watch. He said not to swear, he knows me so well. I heard him coming down the stairs and I jumped up and ran behind him as he continued to show “our friends our newly refurbished living room and the shelf that I don’t like”. As he was apparently was heading to the dining room, I was still hiding behind him when he switched the camera around and proposed. About 20 of our friends were watching including my Mum, Brother, Sister-In-Law, and Nephews. I said yes obviously. I cried, laughed, screamed, and swore.
We sat down and out came a bottle of sparkling wine and chat. I asked if we could have a vegan wedding and he said yes (YAY) as long as he can have a Hog Roast? . The phone calls then started, first to Mum, who just laughed, my brother was next and my S-I-L said that she cried. Rob told me that he asked my Mum when she stayed at Christmas and my brother when we visited on Boxing Day, He’s a crafty one, and that’s usually ME! I then set up a WhatsApp group for my Sis-In-Law and my bestie called “I’m getting MARRIED! About 4-5 messages in I said that my SIS was my Maid Of Honour. It took about 3 messages after to click what I had written, she cried again. She is so excited ?
As soon as I started telling people our exciting news, the big question, “When’s the happy day?” ? 2021 is my standard reply. So, hello Pinterest, hello UK Bride & Hello Instagram for inspiration. I always wondered how Facebook knows stuff like I need a wedding venue and rings. I clicked on the little icons and asked why am I seeing this ad? It said, you recently got engaged and then it all made sense. I clicked the ‘I don’t want to see this anymore’ button and that was that!! The planning has begun.
The first week, I was thinking about it before I went to sleep and again when I woke up. It was actually driving me insane, then I told myself to stop thinking or I will lose my mind. I haven’t stopped but I’m not thinking about it obsessively anymore. Just every morning, when I should be getting out of bed to get ready for work, I look at Pinterest or Insta.
I have requested a LOAD of wedding brochures, all but a couple are in our price range. With this in mind, I had to think outside the box as to what venues are available to us. Think, village halls. I did ask Rob for a figure that I could work from and it is £2000. That’s a start and the most amount of input that he has given to me.
We went to a wedding fair this weekend just passed which I enjoyed and Rob actually partook in. I thought he’d walk around with a strop on but he was faced with a wall of doughnuts so that was a good start. We talked, we saw, we enquired and picked up a few ideas, including a bar, the letters LOVE in lights and maybe even harp players for my love of classical music. We also have a date with a venue that had a good price, 3 days all inclusive, I do have to look at the website though, which I have not had a chance to do just yet.
So there is my 1st wedding journal done…